Me and My Suspicion
Warning: This is a very long post. The ability to stay awake is needed to read the whole post.
I’ve faced quite a lot of sexual harassments. That made me even more careful when facing strangers. I’ve been been followed by some male fools for a number of times. The most recent was almost 2 weeks ago, with Azima. Two men were following us but we managed to escape the situation. I think they were foreigners. We got a bit scared. Especially Azima.
Then a few days later, in the parking lot, when I was just about to unlock my car, two men came and approached us. My right hand was holding the car keys and a shopping bag while my left hand was holding a Hot&Roll Balognese Beef wrap. My heart was beating so fast. I thought I was going to get robbed. or kidnapped or raped, all the worst scenarios. Azima already backed away from the car and she was ready to run away. I was still in front of the driver’s door of the car.
The two men were dressed in office wear. I didn’t really look at the other guy as I was concentrating at the guy who was at the front -closer to me. He was standing about 2-3 feet from me. He looked neat and clean like a typical office guy. Then, he asked me a question, “We came in through the new wing’s parking entrance. Is this the floor?”
As he was asking the question, I was thinking that that was a common trick criminals in disguise use before they rob or stab someone. And that thought didn’t help but made me think that I was going to get home in public transportation. I could imagine my mum kick me out of the house for letting that to happen. There was a few heart beats of silence and he waited for my answer.
Then, I turned to Azima and she nodded. I said, “yes”. He said thanks and walked away. Azima and I looked at each other and quickly got in the car and both of us immediately locked the car doors. For a second there, we both thought that we were going to get in trouble. When we were on our way out, we saw the two men searching for their car. I felt bad for them for being suspicious and therefore, wasn’t being much help.
(oh my, this post has gotten quite long already)
My past experiences taught me to be leery of new people, especially. I won’t say paranoid because I’m actually braver than I thought.
Once, I remember, when I was 15 (and stupid) my classmate harassed me by spanking my butt when I was talking to a friend in class. There were two guys behind me and I knew who did that. I was pissed so I asked him, “What was that for?” Then he said, “he (while pointing to his friend) challenged me to do that.” I couldn’t believe what I heard. That was so ‘mature’ of him. I’m not exactly sure what I said to him afterwards but he never did it again. I think. He’s a pervert anyway. I still remember his sick face. 
AT that time, I never knew about how to deal with sexual harassment. I think that was the year I got the most sexual harassments, at school. Guys can be very immature. The worst one was that, this one guy grabbed me at my waist when I was on my way to the toilet and he tried to kiss me. Luckily, there were some kids walking on the hallway and he didn’t have the balls to force me in public. (phew! Gotta thank that kid). I was stunted and walked away. I never heard about him in the next year. Which is awesome. I didn’t report the matter to anyone, tho. Yeah, that was the stupid part. I didn’t know how to deal with sexual harassment at that time.
But now I know. So, be careful, guys. I wish I can perform the testicle removal operation. but that’s okay, I know people who can. haha.
If I didn’t read an article on a magazine about sexual harassment or watched 3R show on TV, I would never knew how to deal with it until now. I’m not sure if the government has ever done anything to educate the young girls. Please, Malaysia government. Do something. Else, such cases won’t stop or at least, reduced. Don’t let the girls know how to deal with it the hard way because it might already be too late by then.
To girls (and guys) out there have you ever experienced sexual harassments? How did you respond to the situation?
I think I need to get myself a paperspray pepper spray. or a swiss army knife. or better yet, a gun. 
Ps, this post has just turned about sexual harassment entry while I initially wanted to post about my experience with strangers. hehe.
What is it with posts involving sex these days?
Before I go, I want to thank Teddy for featuring my new theme on his blog! It’s very generous of him. and it’s such an honour. Go, visit his wonderful blog!
p.p.s, sorry if I haven’t been returning comments. I’ve been sick for 5 days now and it gets worse each day. Now, I’ve just lost my voice.
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Nothing wrong with being cautious. You are afterall a girl, nothing much you can do if they drag you.
hey, Im first ?
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ow that u mention it, i teringin hot and roll. haha
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I pun nak. :s
haha
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jom esok
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jom
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Jom, I pun nak. tapi I tak sihat la babe. wuwu~
cik pimboli. ape hot and roll tu? bunyi macam sedap je.
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bunyi macam.. makanan
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memang itu makanan. sedap. :)
now*
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apa kata cik aisya bawak parang tak pun pisau ramboo. standby dalam handbag and boot kereta. :p
ps: just be carefull withe the strangers
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Bawak parang tak boleh woooo. Kena tahan polis, polis jumpa parang, lemak nak menjawab.
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wau! that pretty bad though! yay.. ha.. see
, not much news and news paper.. that y u didnt know how to deal with it.
well, i must say that i had to deal with this kind of flirt harassment (can i call that
) most of my time when i’m helping my parent as a waitress. I’m getting sick of that. yucks! i hate their ‘compliment’! 
I always make that kind of cold expression look or muka seposen. like there is nothing happen! haha.. take the order and get away! that what i said to myself when i had to take order from unknown guys.
p/s: i get quite well with some guys though. i dont mind being ‘play’ by them. yeah.. I have inai on my nails and wearing gold bracelet. look like just married huh?
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i got spanked on the butt once, by a girl. haha
that guy who grabbed you on the wrist, Aisyah, that’s really dangerous. never walk alone la
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it was the waist. not the wrist.
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MK, orang tgh serious tu, ko buat lawak plak. karang Aisyah spank ko. Menangis tak berlagu
hahaha. ko demam lagi?
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waist. wrist. typo
eh betul la aku penah kena spank. and actually, me too, penah ke pgg kat waist, by another girl. both of em are classmates, so i didn’t really know what to react
demam dah hoke
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ala MK.. kene pegang gitu, buat2 tatau sudah.. kita kan lelaki..
kes lelaki kena gangguan seksual ni sgt rare.. hah a
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oh. so kalau laki kena spank camtu korang tak kisah eh?
nak buat kat my ex la. haha.
tak kesah, kalau awek cun macam azima, kan mael
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Kalau lelaki kena spank dgn pompuan, bukan harassment, tetapi adalah suatu anugerah dan compliment :P
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Oh my God, he spanked you?! In class?! WTH IS WRONG WITH THE MALE RACE?
(Ok ok, only SOME of the male race, but y’know, kerana nila setitik, blablabla.)
Geesh, and I thought my old school had disciplinary problems… (Well, it did, and some cases were quite bad, but still.) Do us females need to be super cold sombong niqab-ed-from-head-to-toe before they’ll leave us alone? I doubt it. You really should’ve reported things like that though, when they happen at school. (Or anywhere.)
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male race?
heh. Males. some can act very immaturely. yeah, I should have reported it. like I said, I was stupid.
(and probably still am. paper is NOT the same as pepper, will keep that in mind)
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Heh, yeah. Kaum lelaki, direct translation. =P
I think they need to understand the concept of RESPECT. Females aren’t creatures for them to look at and judge or TOUCH. We’re humans, yang ade maruah.
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Owh, and I believe you meant pepper spray, dear.
I don’t know how useful spraying paper would be… :P
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OMG. I didn’t realized I actually typed paper. It’s pronounced the same though.
hahahahahaha.
I just realized how stupid I can be.
blame the headache I was having. LOL
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few years ago, i sent my gf back to house. i dropped her about 7 meters away (across the road) so got a guy with motorcycle snatched her hand bag. luckily i was in gear 1. so i speed up and crash the snatcher haha motor tu hancur bersama bahagian depan kereta i. :P tapi sungguh tak berbaloi sbb i kena repair kereta rm2500! insurans tak cover kalau i sengaja langgar :((
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hey..1st time leavin a comment here tho been reading ur blog for a while now..luv it =)
nways,i had the same experience..
i was so stupid i didnt report bout the sexual harrasment (which happened in school too)..such a jerk..but heck,gals shud be more exposed on what to do in these kind of situations..kan kan?heeee
oh sorry..lengthy comment eh?haha..
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@aneesah,
u meant male population or gender, since when there are male race? *u know I am kidding rite?
maybe she did meant paperspray so that it gives papercuts all over the places especially the …….. take dat strangers boom pak tetaboo #%#$@* *again kidding..
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XD Kaum lelaki dong. See, BM has much fewer words to choose from. :D
Imma invent a paper spray one day, then. ^^
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Damn, sorry to hear about what you had to go through! =( I’ve never experienced that, thank goodness, but probably because I’m not as good-looking as you. Hehe… But wow, I’m sorry to hear that… =(
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Do boys (..or Men) get sexual harassments? But I’m sure most men don’t mind getting all the attentions.
I know what you mean - i got two sisters and im so happy one is getting married and no more looking after work to do. My sisters once got followed to our house and the guy would bring his friends and sit till she comes out
Dont tell me at times you dont like the attention from the guys
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yes, they do. and yeah, I think they would actually enjoy it.
wow. that’s scary about what happened to your sister. the guy definitely didn’t have the respect for your sister.
and, I actually do enjoy attention from guys. but when it gets physical, it’s an harassment. those people who do that are not being respectful and shouldn’t be respected as well.
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someone who can perform testicle operation?
ive had tht experince too. most recently was inside the train. i think he was trying to pickpocket me kot. lucky for me i realized that the bastard was slipping his hand into my jeans pocket (how stupid). i turned around n curse at him n he effing sengih then ran out of the train. i really should have screamed.
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I won’t say I’ve experienced much sexual harassment. I’m a very cautious person and I tend to get scared very easily. I’m always freaked out where ever I go and pay close attention to my surroundings. Probably it’s because a few years ago after hanging out at the mall with a friend, we went for dinner and the guy robbed him and took his car. *sigh* There’s nothing like being too suspicious.
Last week, I went TGI Fridays with my boyfriend. He went to the washroom and I’m sitting there minding my own business. Next thing I knew, he was looking and flirting with me. I grabbed the keys and ran in the car. Stupid decision I know. He could have easily followed me. I was terribly scared.
Hope you feel better love.
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oh, that’s really terrible. poor him.
wait, so did you mean, it was your bf who was looking and flirting with you? and you freaked out? hm…
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Oh man. I was just about to go to bed before I made that comment. Haha. I meant there was a guy sitting in front of me by the bar and he turned around looked at me and started flirting and I freaked out. =(
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i love to go out shopping alone. one time, masa nak turun tangga from the mall, one guy yang nak naik tangga,datang dekat and pinched my breast. then he laughed and walked away. my hands dah la full with shopping bag.so i lepaskan semua shopping bags on the floor. i ran to him, and gave him a slap. *with err.. some bitchy words* huhuhu.
that was 5 years ago. gosh! i still remember. huhuhu~ NIGHTMARE!
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OMG??!!!! I’m just so speechless.
wait ah. I’m going to get something to eat then I’ll come back and say what I have to say.
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ha ha.. boleh pulak pegi makan dulu.. ha ha
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ok, I’m back. sorry it took so long, I had a loooong nap. haha.
now, this is what I was going to say,
HOLY SH*T!!!
That guy was incredibly disrespectful and he definitely didn’t treat girls with dignity. and he laughed? anyways, I’m so proud of what you did. and I know the feeling of it.
about this breast touching, I’ve experienced it too. I was walking on my way to school. then there was this moron who was on his bicycle, he spanked my breast while he was on it! I couldn’t chase him because a) he was son his bicycle and he sped up b) I was wearing the freaking school uniform! and the worst part is, I didn’t even had a good at him. At least if I meet him in the future, I could give him some sweet revenge. LOL.
god, I actually got quite a lot of sexual harassment.
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waaa… u experienced it too?
kesian kita kan (!!!)
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tu la, kesian…
*peluk*
OMG.. maniac
he deserves more than a slap
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macam2 hal nowadays..
men get some sexual haressment?
never thought of that..
should i say..
people just don’t like to be physically touch from whom they did not recognise.. or outsider..
right?
anyway.. got nothing to do huh ms. aisyah?
replying comments in the morning? :))
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come to think of it, I did some sexual harassmnets to guys but they seemed to enjoy it. so, it wasnt necessarily a harassment. i think.
of course people dont like to be treated without respect. we cant just touch anyone. we need a license to touch. huhu
and yeah, got nothing to do.didn’t sleep last night. now, i just woke up from a very long nap
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Yes, do buy a pepper spray (instead of more clothes / shoes!).
I’ve seen a makcik in action with it, at the Serdang commuter station a few years back. The pervert was touching her a few times before (based on what she said) and she decided to take some ACTION. She sprayed the man on his eyes and kick him straight on the *toot*. One of the best kung-fu kick I’ve seen in a while.
Try that girls. Don’t be afraid. (but don’t test it on your brother/sister la.)
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owh. wow. kool gile makcik tu. haha. respect ah
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wait. even mak cik get sexual harassment? she has gotta be some makcik. LOL.
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Mamat tu “desperate” kot. Saya tengok makcik tu so-so je. Lol!
As for me, every time a suspicious looking guy approaches me, I suddenly feel the nervousness. I hate moments like that, I just want to cry and run every time that happens to me.
Phewww.
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I think everyone will be thrilled to get attention from somebody (remember, Homo sapiens are social animals! :)) teehee), but I agree with you that when physical contact (which is rather forced by the other party) comes in, it’s a freaking sexual harassment. I just don’t get it why people couldn’t treat others with dignity. It’s worrying that so many pervertic men out there express their view of one’s sexual attractiveness through physical means. Couldn’t they just stare in awe and walk away later, own up to the fact that EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAYS? There’s no plain Jane or average Joe in the world - everyone is unique, and don’t ever rank someone by using their sexual attractiveness.
It would be nice if you can get a pepper spray and a pervert alarm (those that ring / scream / shout / wail loudly when you press the button). Luckily pepper sprays are not illegal in Malaysia - it is in Singapore! But then over the causeway there isn’t many perverts, and even if there are, they aren’t that open and noisy. Geez, these people ruin the image of guys! I must admit that 99% of the perverts are guys and they have nothing better to do in life than trying in vain to look up a girl’s skirt or force a kiss on someone.
I’ve got a horrible experience when I was with my cousin! We were waiting for the elevator when one of it broke down and the other two was packed with people, so we decided to take the stairs in a shopping mall. Then when we were climbing down towards the carpark, a bunch of junkies at the bottom (they’re most probably smoking marijuana or something, since I smelled smoke and saw candles and matches scattered at the staircase landing) started to jeer at my cousin, and attempted to look up into her skirt (we were one floor above them). How shameful and stupid. I wish I had a shotgun in hand and make sure that each of them leave for hell with bodies riddled with bullets. Haha
So take care! And thanks for the pluggie! It’s just sooo kind and nice for you.
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Oh and I’ve got a few lines of PHP errors when I post a comment (but they still appear). One of which states that it can’t modify the header information. Did you configure your wp-config.php correctly?
Sorry but I think it’s better to tell you… in case anything bad happens.
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I don’t know if your boyfriend spanked your butt counts. But years ago, I’ve never experienced being sexually harassed in any way possible - and I’m lucky. Cos’ I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t know what to do if one day, while crossing the street, an ugly man approaches me and grab touch my boobs. I don’t know how will I react if ever that situation happens. Or I don’t know what step to do. Oh whatever. I just don’t know.
Its good to hear that somewhat, you know how to deal with it. And yes, just be careful. There’s nothing really wrong if you suspect someone, especially if he looks suspicious.
And this may come a bit off topic but while reading it, I’ve noticed that there are lots. Tsk tsk Aisyah. You’re way too beautiful and sexy!
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well, if it was my boyfriend, sure I wouldn’t mind. haha! he certainly has the license to touch. LOL.
and maybe an alarm is good. you just press the button to turn on the alarm. I think it’s a pretty good idea.
and…and.. hm…you think I’m beautiful? pfft. well, if that’s true and this is the price I have to pay, then I’d rather be ugly.
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and oh, speaking of bf. I remember my ex once spanked butt. at that time, we were just friends.
so I asked him, “hey, what was that for?” but it wasnt like I was mad or anything. then, he immediately apologized and said that was a very immature and unnecessary action. I smiled, and said, “I know I’m hard to resist *wink*”
LOL
so sexual harassment is just when people do things to you (be it verbally or physically) when you actually don’t like/permit it.
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Oh. Now I understand. LOL.
i tau spe slalu kacau u mse f3!!a*ma* kan?ur ex tuh?;)
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babi diam. haha.
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haha die mmg!i p0n die raba!miang semacam!
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SERIOUS? u x penah citer pun!
ke i yang tak igt?
haha i rs,, u yg xingt..die mmg sme p0mpuan die raba!
oh hehe. sorry babe.
short term memory lost.
heh. dia mmg. sial je. dia tu masalah la.
that’s what happen if a guys cant control themself.
they became too horny then. ROFL
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luckily, you didn’t panic and scream/run/hysteria or else pity the two bloke.. haha. but they also shouldn’t approach people that way I think. keep a distance and ask ‘may i ask you something?’ first.
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it’s called a castration (the technical medical term is an orchidectomy - if you wanna get all fancy) and a for an interesting take on how the procedure is done you could watch ellen page in the movie hard candy, where she does a pretty impressive job removing the perverts testicles.
castration as a form of punishment has been around since the olden days and according to wikipedia, physical castration appears to be a highly effective preventive method to prevent cases of repeat sex offenders. like hell yeah no kidding lol.
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spanking butt? y’know what aisyah, i did that to my classmates (especially to the guys) back in high school! .. is it considered as sexual harassment too…? LMAO hehe :p
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A guy spanked you at the butt? Gosh, that’s so damn rude wokay. If I faced that kind of situation, I wouldn’t have any idea how to react. Huhu.. I’ve never experienced any sexual harassment, I think. I mean, things like being grabbed on the waist, spanked on the butt, etc, etc. Thank God! Uhh..
Anyway, my friend had an experience once. She was about to get off from a taxi and the taxi driver suddenly touched her boobs. WTF.
From now on, I would never ever sit beside the taxi driver. Better take precaution. Huhu..
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you never had sexual harassment before? wow. wow. WOW. I had lots of it.
I don’t know why. *sobs*
read my (and other) comments above and I’m sure you will feel (even more) disgusted.
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cop cop, sape kate laki tak kesah kene gangguan seksual? saye penah diraba dan diekori oleh maknyah.. dan saya kesah tentang hal nie.. sungguh takut..
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takenaga — kau mungkin berwajah jambu seperti Aliff Aziz.. kan? =)
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dia mmg macam gay-ish sikit. haha
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I macam gay-ish? ye eh? rase cam dah cukup masculine jee..
Wow! Yucks!!
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Maknyah suke lelaki masculine lah.
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ergh. twisted world.
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haha. takde la, memain je. u comel. haha.
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oh by the way, theme baru nie cun la! saya suka!
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hehe. tapi saya lagi cun kan? haha.
rindu la kat awak. lepas awak spm kita date ok. haha
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sudah semestinya! haha
lepas spm? skang pon no hal.. hahaha
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I have been harassed so much it isn’t even funny anymore. It’s usually by older guys who think they’re so confident and waltz up to me with their canes and breathing tanks and tell me how I am “a pretty little girl” What the hell?! Very scary. Whenever guys my age harass me they do it the immature way and send me emails on Facebook or stalk me on AIM. I hate it so much.
The worse interactions I have had with guys is on the train, they just stare or sit uncomfortably close. And some guys are too scared to blantantly stare so they stare at the window which has a reflection and they can see you without looking you in the face. So the entire train ride they STARE and STARE. -_-.
What I think is worse is some guys are so brave they go and grab women they do not know! I feel so bad for you! I think you should invest in some pepperspray and brass knuckles. I know the last suggestion sounds so vicious but if you have weak arms like me, they could help add that extra punch!
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Yes pepper sprays! And wolf alarms if you need - they’re those nifty little devices that squeal and scream when you press a button on it. My aunt got herself a pepper spray last time, and when she saw a stranger approaching her (he was still like 50m away, she started spraying and the pepper got into her eye! Lol. But then luckily she quickly retracted into her car and locked the doors dead and drove off as fast as possible :))
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She is a smart woman! I also heard its okay to get a little pepperspray in your eyes. It helps you appreciate the damage it could do.
Hehe, I love the “wolf alarms” read it to quickly and thought it said, “wold claws”.
*rummages through her purse for wolf claws* rawrr!
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I would have been really scared if I were in that situation :/ I don’t blame you for acting that way!
I’ve never gotten sexually harassed, and I don’t think any of my friends have either. But anyway, we’re only 12/13, and there’s still a lot left of the world to conquer.
By the way, I didn’t comment on your last post about the layout, so I will now - it’s amazing, seriously amazing! I don’t get how you always manage to make such amazing layouts :/
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Wow… there is definitely something wrong there! I’ve always been mean, and I think I’m actually the contributor to some form of sexual harassment, but I always retaliated. So I have never really been sexually harassed like that. Good for you for taking a stand and protecting yourself. It would not hurt to take some self defense class as well since you’ve been followed and stalked before.
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woops.. u better be careful aisyah. living in the place like KL ni mmg byk dugaan mostly for females. of course.
i got one story to share… (mind to write it here?) hehe.. ok, i’ll make it shorter so that you wont get sick wit it. Sian skrang ni pun u tak sihat,aite?
urmm… i was at the parking area (the curve) heading towards my car and suddenly i saw 2 guys mcm tgh ngendap2 my car and when I approached them (gile brani plus stupid kan?) they asked me “is this ur car?”.
i was like, “err…not really. but im using it. y?”
guy 1: “im sorry to say this miss, tapi kita kena tarik this car sbb tak byr for about 5 months.”
guy 2: “kete ni sapa punya?”
me: “errr…silap org kot. i dont think the owner tak bayar this car”
guy 2: “sapa punya kete dik?”
me: “wait! who ever own this car, can u guys first show me all your id or any surat bukti about this?”
guy 1: *showing an obvious FAKE letter from RHB bank*
I told them that the car didnt have anything to do with RHB bank. huhuhu…since its already paid-by-cash. Hah! they started to gelabah ayam. Since my dad works at RHB, i know a little bit about loans and insurance semua.
tanpa fikir panjang, i quickly shout for help. and they ran away. huh~ ada sorg chinese guy ni dtg kononnye nak tlg. luckily nothing happens to the car and ME.
u see aisyah, living in KL mcm have to take risk about it. be aware. be brave but wise. mcm2 cara org nak amek kesempatan to us.
:)
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oh wow. that’s really scary ok. menggeletar lutut. haha. but nasib la u tau a bit about RHB bank. and the fact that you said the car was paid by cash! LOL.
plus, they came at the parking lot. isn’t that weird already? bukan slalu kat rumah ke? how the hell did they know that you are there? idiots.
anyway, thanks for sharing.
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I think the big problem with Malaysia is that it is not established as to what constitutes as sexual harassments.
Back when I was in primary, my teacher did “something” to one of my mates. I thought, blehh.
If it happened now, I’d say, hey! That’s sexual harassment!
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Hmm…couldn’t believe a guy would just spank you out of a dare. Was that in primary or secondary? And if either, was it in a private or govt school?
Anyway, ladies need to be more careful nowadays. Especially the ones who always say they look damn good. And I’m not being sarcastic.
p.s: Hey Aishah.. let’s go out. ROFL! kidding…
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that was in secondary school. and it is a govt school. govt or private, both got perverts.
ps, Lets! your treat! haha
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something similar happened in the lrt here
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hey, speaking of sexual harassment at schl, my friend dulu sorta kena time kitorang form 1. she’s very pretty so the malay guys in my class love to kacau her. mula2 kacau then they start touching her here and there. sometimes even at the chest. she didn’t do anything except shouts “perv” to the guys. so me and my other friend told a teacher what the guys did and my friend who kena kacau was like “huh? who told teacher abt this?” in a tak puas hati tone. i was like :SS its like she rather having guys touch her than to let the teacher know. :/ i was trying to help her. sigh.
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you have her number?
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Dude, that was in school. She probably now dah dewasa. Where you going to touch la. ROFL!
Anyway, I guess the girl really wanted the attention so she willingly liked it…in a discreet way.
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Danny, Im sure there’s away to get her number :)
I like your blog though, minimalist
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how about mine? haha
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u kene la belajar ape ape yang leh mempertahankan diri u.. setakat spray je, takde maknanya..
jgn biarkan orang ingat wanita “indah-indah” ni, semuanya lemah belaka.. berikan mereka satu flying kick yang x mampu dilupa sampai bila2..
i’m no idea.. ade orang ehem2 punggung u, u x buat ape ape tindakkan right? isk isk.. kalau khai jadi u, dah lama kepala diorang tu berpusing ke belakang…
kalau report polis, tido lokap diorang tu.. macam satu kejadian yang pernah jadi kat skolah khai..
lastly, jaga diri baik2.. carilah pakwe atau suami yang mmg boleh jaga u dengan baik.. seperti mohd ismail.. hakhaks..
(nama itu bukan paksaan ditulis di sini. jgn mara mael :P)
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oh. tu la. msa tu tak tahu sexual harassment tu apa. kesian.
spt mohd ismail? hahaha. kalau dia tak paksa, berapa dia bayar you?
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err.. just nak jadi yang ke-100. hahaha (sori. komen takde kaitan.
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cik ayumi. kamu ni gatal la. haha
sorry takde hadiah.
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hahaha.. *garu.garu.garu*
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Im a male jadi macam xde masalah je kalo kena sexual harassment asalkan yang buatnya gurl, bukan boy atay transexual…haha!
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banyak sebenarnya sexual harrasment ni..
kadang2 selalu citer pasal perempuan je jadi mangsa.. camne pula kalau lelaki plak jadi mangsa???
jarang dengo kan.. tapi ada sebenarnya….
apahal sokong supaya budak2 sekolah perlu diajar untuk menangani masalah nie..
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oh wow
beraninye u nk admit kt sni
act i pnah had a close encounter jgk
i think i was only ten
kt toilet kfc okeh!!!
i didnt noe it was a sexual harassment at d time, but i knew it was wrong
i only told aiman abt it a few months ago
b4 tht, noone knew…
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Ada bagusnya berhati2.Tapi kalau keterlaluan tu melampau gak eh.
Aku sendiri pernah nak pecah duit, sbb nak guna telefon awam(kecemasan time tu).Mintak pecah seringgit je pun.
X kira laki ke perempuan, haram xde sekor nak bagi.Ntah apa yang diorg takut.Padahal kat tempat awam.Berlambak org kat siru.
Orang msia kena belajar berbaik sangka!!
Maaf r dtg terjah je.
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