Ladies are Tough, Too
I just got back from the clinic. I waited for damn 40 minutes for my turn. There were quite a lot of patients. Oh well, I came at peak hours, so it is expected.
As I was waiting for my turn, I saw 2 pregnant moms and some other young moms with their small cute hobbits. I saw them (the moms) talking to each other about their kids, when they were born, how many kids they have and such. And some of the kids even played with each other. It was a peaceful sight.
I can NOT imagine myself being a mother. How will I treat my kids? what kind of mother will I be? I don’t know. Or at least, not for now. I still have a loong way to go. hehe. Anyway, what I saw just now, made me think. I’ve seen so many people (guys, actually) saying that,
Wanita kaum yang lemah
Women are weak
Hell, I disagree.
Sure, women are physically weak compared to guys. If women are weak, why the hell do you think that god gives the women the ability to breed? I’m sure that all of you know that giving birth is like a war of life and death.
Giving birth is just the beginning. Not to mention the 2 months of bleeding afterwards. Don’t get me started on PMS. Breast swelling, feeling tired, acne, headache, backache, muscle cramps, anxiety, depression and mood swings. Some of you guys might say that “Nah, even us guys can deal with all that.” Now, how about having those for a week EVERY month? Oh, the price we pay for being able to breed.
We, women are given such great patience that triumphs our ‘weak’ physical. Well, at least, as physically weak as us might be, we can survive parturition. Furthermore, there are more and more girls who learn self defense -and use it! So, never underestimate us.
I have a lot more to say, but that’s all for now. The doctor said that I should stay away from the computer. Funny, I didn’t realize that I was having a fever all these while.
Doctor: Hi, how may I help you? 
Me: I have a sore throat. but I don’t know if I have a fever.
Doctor: I see, let me take your temperature reading
Me: ok
Doctor: Yes, you do have a fever.
Me: oh?
My temperature is 38.5oC, I have a sore throat, normal blood pressure, normal lungs.
Earlier this morning, my mum said that I could have a fever. But I denied it cause I felt healthy except for the sore throat and headache. But then when she touched me, she said, “oh dear, you have a fever,”
How come I didn’t realize that I caught a fever???
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- I got listed at Flarebiz’s list of teenagers who make money online. Skip to No. 5! LOL.
- My previous post broke the most commented record. A total of 95 comments by now, most comments I got.
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Women always have my utmost respect in every area. Be it gossiping, sales & marketing, pain in ass english teacher, a single parent, pet lover.. every thing.
Aisyah, its a modern world out there. We (men) respect and love what you do for us. Now get back to kitchen!
A famous Australian saying “Women are only good on bed and in the kitchen”
I highly doubt that
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get back to kitchen?
ok.
now, I’m back with a chopping knife. castration, anyone? LOL.
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lariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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*kejar*
you macam bole kejar je. I lari 1.7km everyday tau!
*berlagak skit*
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haha. i never said woman are weak~ :) i know they are strong. :bb strong inside. :) that’s why they can breed. hihi~ maybe you won’t understand what i’m saying
neway², how come you didn’t realize you got a fever. haha! :bb && 38.5 Celsius just a normal fever right?? :)
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oh ya! i learned something today. what is PMS. haha! :)
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oh yeah, no 1. you made money from design? tak pernah cite pon!
2. It’ll break 100 soon. be sure to keep it nice and tidy
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oh. cause you never asked?
and, mcm malas dah nak reply comments entry tu. too much comments la. haha
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Well, one of the signs of getting a fever they say is when you feel aches. As for the sore throat, it feels very dry. As for flu, either cough or running nose comes then the other follows after.
So far when I’m sick, I’m really sick and I hate it when that happens. Feel awful and don’t want to feel happy. :P
Anyway, Aisyah…did you get my email? I need your reply quite urgently on it. If you haven’t received it, please email me. Thanks.
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it’s just that, I felt fine and I wasn’t feeling as sick.
usually, if my whole family got infected, I would be the last person to get infected. in most cases, I don’t get a fever at all. I’m one of those lucky kids who rarely fall sick.
maybe that’s why I didn’t expect it. haha. and oh, I got your email and I just replied.
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Aisyah, I’ve still not gotten your email. :(
Could you please resend to the other email I’ve provided in this comment. Thanks.
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now, don’t tell me that you haven’t received my email. :)
:) yeah! Aisyah mmg cool! Congrat.. haha..
Hey, Nice points!! I really2 agree about giving birth eventhough I havent experience it
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p/s: To Flarebiz ~ ak me!! haha..
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Hehe dah dapat duit belum daripada Internet ni?
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ops! typing error.. ak me = ask me!
p/s: about how much a design from aisyah would cost..
hehe..
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Log in but forget to update my profile..
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I edited your name. teehee xD
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Hehe.. thnzx! :)
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istilah ‘perempuan kaum lemah’ ni mcm da tak relevan da skang.. dulu mungkin la sbb pompuan melayu lebih lembut & sopan santun (skang bukan’nya tak, tp dulu lebihhh..)
dan siapa dulu nak sembang pasal pms, breast swelling (mende ni?), proses peritnya melahirkan anak apa semua secara terbuka? so, orang ‘luar’ lingkungan perempuan kurang tahu betapa kuatnya seorang perempuan nak lawan/tahan semua tu..
*aisyah, u skang da jadi blogstar.. ha ha..*
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Thank you, Mail.
yeah, dulu orang tak open-minded. sekarang ni baru lelaki tahu perempuan ni hebat sebenarnya. heheh.
blogstar? haha. belum boleh lawan mail lagi kot. huhu. rasanya perempuan lagi susah kot nak jadi blogstar. no?
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Get well soon girl. I’ve seen women do better things than a man, in their own special way.
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How come I didn’t realize that I caught a fever???
because u r a strong girl..
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Jesus christ alive. Your layout is freaking amazing! How on earth do you make such good themes? Can I kill you too? Then we shall both be dead and happy. lmao! Im not really pretty. You cant see how bad my skin is in small photos, and I had my glasses off. :P And my braces NOT showing, so I cant smile. haha! And my hair was having a random “BeNiceToFaye” 5 minutes. haha. Anyway…
Well done on being listed.. could you please translate what it says about you, for us english speaking only beings? :P I wish I could speak your language, its so pretty written down!
Women may be physically weak, but mentally.. phoar. We rock (most of the time)
Id love to see a man give birth and suffer a period before he goes and says its easy! That makes me mad when a boy says that!
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LOL, Faye, your comments never fail to make me laugh. haha.
dead and happy? Is that even possible? I doubt that. and oh, I’ll try to translate it as good and as accurate as possible.
so yeah, that’s the direct translation. I suck at translating.
and yeah, women rock! *jumps and dances* It pisses me off too, when a guy says that.
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Aisyah… next time kita boleh bekerjasama untuk menjana wang “lebih” daripada Internet…
Are you ready? ho ho ho!
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Yep, I know EXACTLY what you mean about being a mom. I had a conversation with somebody about this like 3 months ago! But yes, I know what you mean about women NOT being weak. But wow, I hope you’ll feel better soon! And yeah, that’s pretty weird that you didn’t know you had a fever… LOL…
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I completely agree with you. Women sure are tough. Men cannot go through the ordeal of PMSing every month or giving birth. I’ve thought about kids lately. I’m not quite sure if it’s a phase I’m going through. Just yesterday at Hallmark I picked up a Happy Birthday Card for a Niece. Part of me wants a kid or a niece. *sigh* =(
I never realize when I have a fever. I hope you feel better soon. =)
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hmm.. I haven’t really had the desire to have my own kids, yet. maybe it’s because the thought of getting pregnant and going through labour is scary. truthfully speaking, I don’t really like kids. Except if they are someone close to me, or a very very cute kid with interesting character. and, have you picked out the names? LOL.
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Lol. My boyfriend and I usually talks about names. I like Emiley or Emerly. =)
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Nice names. Especially Emerly. Never heard a name like that. but it sounds beautiful.
looks like aisyah has been a really top blogstar now.
i wonder how you looks like when being a mother. will you still blog? will u be a diva like redmummy? who know.. ahaha
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i never thought ladies are weak. both are equally strong - maybe in different aspects. :)
agreed with mohdismail - dah x relevan sekarang.
*btw i know its late, but yeah, great new theme! love the paper texture, especially the twitter :D
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i never thought ladies are weak. both are equally strong - maybe in different aspects. :)
awwwh. thank you.
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hey, both men & women have their own strong & weak part lah. But that just IMHO. hehe.
for me, if i have sore throat, for sure i’ll get fever too. haha
p/s: get well soon!! makan ubat, jangan makan budak!
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yay! pompuan memang kuat! angkat berat boleh, main bola boleh,mekanik boleh, main skate pun boleh.(siap terguling2 jatuh kt tangga punya handrail, ngeri, hati kering)
ya pompuan memang kuat, tanpa pompuan(mak aku) aku tak lahir kt dunia ni.
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it’s incredulous that women in some parts of the world still have to fight for basic human rights against gender discrimination. a large number of men really believe women to be unequal and undeserving of the same rights as them.
when actually they should be the ones feeling inferior! try carrying around a baby for nine months plus and then go through the absolute pain that is labour and THEN we’ll talk about equal rights pfft.
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There, you already deny your own statement..
patience ? LOL… I still remember what the teacher at my driving school said, if someone hons at you, make sure to look back, it will definitely be a ’she’. I just got back from kl, know what ? its true.. so, you women got patience huh ? LOL..
No offense, but you made it sounds like just because women are the only sex that CAN deliver babies, it means they have more patience ? Its not guys dont want to or have no patience in delivering babies, its because we simply logically and medically can’t do that.. you’re judging us for something we cant do ?
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uuu~ looks like somebody is offended.
and, again, when did I judge the males? I don’t think that I’m judging anybody here.
Just because? now, go to your mum and ask her how painful it was to bring you into the world. not to mention the 9 months of carrying a 3.5kg load. Try to put that much load on your stomach and carry it around for 9 months. no break time allowed.
Did you know why Allah gave the women the ability to breed? it’s because the guys do not have patience and strength to endure the pain. I don’t quite remember but I know I heard it from an ustaz when I was in sekolah Agama. There must be a reason why god gave the breeding job to the women.
and about that joke about female drivers. come on, even guys do that too. when it comes to drivers in KL, male or female, no difference. all become mad drivers. I know, I’ve been to KL a lot of times, by CAR.
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What the freaking fuck you’re talking boy? Stop looking down on woman. Its because guys like you exist, we Malaysians can not move forward!
What do you think of ADAM and EVE then? Adam was created and lived in heaven. Out of the madness of feeling lonely, he asked God for Eve. Doesnt that tell you anything? That WE MEN ARE WEAK!
GOSH I HATE STEREOTYPE MINDSET. Sesia blaja sekolah agame.
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i agree with aisyah and noktahhitam. you are so problematic. stop discriminating women laaa. with what gender u akan kahwin if not perempuan?? and dont tell me u are a gay. haha
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wohooooooo pedas gile Azima.
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haip, jgn gado2. babap nanti
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always agree with azima pimboli~
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uuuu somebody’s gonna get hurt real bad! haha
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dont worry Azima, I’l protect you, even if you dont need my protection. Hahaha
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thx! haha.
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why do I tend to post entries that provoke “hot” comments? haha
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and i predict that this one entry might break the comments record, lalala
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OH MY. Haha. I’m speechless. I don’t know what other things to say, but “I AGREE”. Hail Aisyah!
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every woman & man have their own advantage and ability, strength and weakness. So why are you keep arguing? Respect each other, Sekolah Agama Kah ni?
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ikram zidane point show him, he not a gay. Contrasting = making good judgment.
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This blog has no room for you or your ego. If you disagree on something don’t put it bluntly, no-mouth-brain filter, what-you-think-is-alway-right-attitude. Craft your words carefully and try not to be one PIA.
1. I can accept any opinion as long as its not religiously RUDE.
2. Sorry for that, I take back my words.
3. Again sorry for that. BTW, I never went to a designing school. I’m an engineering graduate.
4. I shall refrain to further improvise my explanation. Because if I do, you’ll look silly. Certainly you dont want your ego to go down do you?
ps: Bro, Aisyah puts things in neutral gear, you put it to back to reverse and crashed the tree.
pss: Again Ikram, I’m sorry for my harsh statement & personal attack and I hope Aisyah will remove my previous comment.
Aisyah: Sorry for the hassle and causing quite an anal on your blog.
Zidane: Grow up.
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Ikram, I don’t care that you disagree that women dont have more patience. maybe you are unlucky enough to always be around women that don’t have that much patience. and I’m sorry for that.
I think sometimes, you should swallow your pride and admit that males are weaker. (not physically, though). Look at those powerful successful men. there’s always a woman behind their success. the first people they thank for their success are their wives. women give men strength. that’s my opinion. and that’s the fucking truth. like NoktahHitam said, grow up. think before you speak.
where the hell did you get this? about the ‘warm’welcome… when it comes to gender discrimination, (in your first comment, you sounded like you were discriminating women) people can get very nasty. same goes for racism. plus, there are a lot of gentlemen who actually respect ladies here. so when there are people who look down to women, they get nasty.
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owh..
i don’t know that ‘disagreeing’ = ‘being problematic’.
wow, such level of thinking! Okay la, next time, whatever ‘thoughtful’ statements coming from this blog, i’ll just agree and say ‘yes’ or ‘you rock’ la okay ?..
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very sarcastic..
hey! r u blind or what?
the post is = Ladies are Tough, Too!!
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Relax la semua! Everyone is entitled to post an opinions, kan aisyah kan?
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and I’m sure that Azima was referring to you as problematic because, in your first comment you sounded like you were looking down to women, which you deny in your second comment. not because of disagreement.
if you are offended by her words, I apologize on behalf of her.
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we (woman) probably not storn phisically but we definetly strong metally.. and im sooo agree with you about giving birth dan menstrual.. its just feel not fair only woman who will feel this PMS things every month!
i cant imagine yet myself having a child in anytime sure even though im 24 and some of my friends already have children, i just not ready yet for the responsibility i guess
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who got a problem with girls ? as i know, god created us both with responsibilities. why should we discriminate girls. they have responsibilities. and so do we , guys. we may be good in leading and surviving. everyone has their pros and cons. respect that. dont be such an asshole discriminating ppl when u dont even know the facts brother. think before u act. nanti ko kawin perempuan jugak, unless ko gay kan. babi betul buat aku panas je org2 camni kutuk sedara sniri. ( siapa makan cili dier rase pedas la do )
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i have just one word for u man, ASSHOLE.
p/s: bak kata raffi, sape mkn cili die terasa pedasnye
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not me..
tak suka makan pedas~
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Azima: aaaa pedas2.. nak air! Lain kali you masak pakai laa cili BOH!
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azima, watch your words babe. nanti your mum marah. haha!
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seriously, relax everyone. -___-”
why does it feel like there’s a war going on here?
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It’s not war Aisyah, it’s just some mindless ramblings. Pardon me for my harsh language. Sorry ok darling?
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war of opinions. everybody is defending their own opinions. nice.
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ntahnye, dah sampai nak mencarut2, kata-kata kesat ni apehal? Masing-masing nak suarakan pendapat masing2. So do respect each other, da sampai carut2 ni apekejadahnye? talking with emotional doesn’t make any sense of relevant
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Sorry bro!
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How to Disagree =)
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mae.. Aku nak kutuk ko plak bole? Hahaha
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mael ni banyak je sumber die
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Mael relax je bagi tips. hehe
comel.
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yo,
whats up guys? About the “war” thing chill out this is not a war at all, nothing wrong with arguing or debating, I think ikram got a point there. He obviously got somethin inside so let him has it. Disagreeing with his point doesn’t mean war either, enlighten him instead of mocking him.
As for myself, I am not disagreeing neither do I agree with what Aisyah has written. I myself took women studies class last summer and learn a lot about women including what mentioned here.
Extra comment about weak, when we said weak it depends. The descriptions or meanings of it varied; could be weak in strength, emotion, motivation, desire, lust or anything. Everyone regardless of genders have weaknesses. So it comes down to which type of weak and would that “weak” be an advantage or disadvantage for particular individuals.
neway, it seems like no matter what our talented Aisyah wrote it will hit hundreds view in a day and plentiful comments in no time. Good stuff on that Aisyah :)
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if there’s something in him, it’s ego. and no one likes ego. like NH already said, even if he disagrees, he shouldn’t put it bluntly.
I take that as a compliment. thank you. :)
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it could be that too. Who knows. I recall back when I was 18 yol (male ok tho usually females are abit mature given same age), maybe if I were him, I would respond, comment or anything just like him. Keep that in mind before anything. And please this ain’t forum. Please no “war” guys!
I am not saying this to you specifically Aisyah but to others, instead replying “his way”, enlighten him “your way”. Work it out if you can’t fight it; if any of us know what I am talking about..
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hi aisyah.
stumble upon ur blog.
here’s an unrelated comment.. the design is abit ‘lari’ in Firefox browser. :(
I like ur design. it’s so cute and fresh. hehe.. keep it up.
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lari? what do mean by ‘lari’?
I’m using firefox as well.
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oh… silap silap… sorry.
not in firefox.. but in IE. the pictures u posted in the entries were a bit misplace sikit.
tp kalau xde ape2 silap then i guess there’s something wrong with my IE browser then. :D
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oh, which IE browser are u using? this theme is not compatible with IE6 and below. and I dont even bother to make it compatible in them. haha
i wonder how aisyah got high traffic and lots of comments hmm…
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sebab dia gadis hot! theme lawa! (bonus untuk dapat traffic tinggi)
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I totally cannot agree with women being lemah. I’ve never actually heard of that before. I guess I should’ve paid more attention in my Malay class. HAHAHA.
I can’t imagine myself being a mother either. I hate children. I don’t find them cute at all. They’re all annoying little twits. HAHAHA. I’ll probably change my mind when I hit my 30s, but for now I really cannot see myself with kids.
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NINETY FIVE COMMENTS. WOW. WOW. WOW.
Women are DEFINITELY not weak! I sometimes think being a man would be so much more easier than being a woman *sigh* all the troubles we face.
I’m sorry about the fever =( Sometimes, I get a fever too without noticing it xD
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Whoa.. What’s happening here? I read everything from top to the bottom and I think.. I think.. I should stay out of this. *runs away*
I’ve had the same thought before too. Sure, I do love kids. But then, I’m not really fond of those naughty ones coz I had been pinched and spanked by one of them. Lol. Anyway, I do not think women are weak. That’s such a cliché. I remember during my last lab practical. We were supposed to do vein puncture on our friend to draw some blood and none of the guys had the guts to do it. Last2, perempuan gak yg buat. Haha. Eh, this definitely has nothing to do with weakness kan. Silly me.
Anyway, congrats on being listed! And you’re only 18! Wow.
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And oh, get well soon dear.
I hate being sick. I tend to get sick easier compared to others.
ps. sorry for the double posts.
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This is what I called “LABOUR DAY fever”. Don’t you think so?
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ok im sorry. dah kena marah ngn aisyah. haha. sorry everyone. i senyap je la. and it is not a war. its a debate. haha sorry again :)
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Er…why all the hostility towards that ikram guy? I think he has a fair point.
What he said about the cancer patient and pregnancies is…spot on.
I think all of this problem is the product of stereotyping people. While I do agree that there are some tough women out there (have you seen Serena William’s arm?, you can’t just simply say that all women are tough. Some women love pregnancy and kids. Some just crumble under the pressure (Britney Spears anyone? Well, she does have some other problems) Just like men are. While some guys are brave, there are guys who are downright cowards. Just like there are single mothers, there are single fathers.
Sometimes, I do think some girls take their feminism streak a bit too far (not accusing anyone here!).
But, not in anyway should anyone take this blog post THAT seriously. I mean, it’s Aisyah! :p
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exactly!
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my problem la if i want to swear or what. u guys got a problem? its a damn blog for god’s sake. i have the right to write whatever i want. for that guy, he has a right too.
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Lelaki atau perempuan masing2 ada kekuatan yang dianugerahkan oleh ALlah..
Bersyukur atas ciptaanNya…
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well..
u’ll youngster seem interested in this topics.. about parenting.. u know that i am a father of a lovely 3 cute kids and until now can’t believe I’ve now married and have them as my kids. its really a miracle and a works of Allah that suddenly transformed me to a character of a father that can actually shower this kids with love,passions,hugs and kisses, and a sense of responsibility towards their upbringing.
well.. i think that’s something right? and i’m
pretty sure that feeling and actions (10x more..hheh)same goes to a mom.
so to u’ll girls out there.. the time will come and then u will know the feelings..
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